When people find out we homeschool the initial reactions we get can vary from shock and awe to flat out disgust. Most, however, immediately begin to tell me how they admire me but could never homeschool themselves. In this series we plan to put to rest some of the myths and stereotypes about what it takes to homeschool.
Myth #1 Homeschooling is Expensive
When my children were first born I was working part time. I made a decent salary for a part time employee and I even had the benefit of being able to take my girls in with me! As jobs go, this one was a dream come true. However, by the time my youngest daughter was 6 months old, taking them both in was just not working. Well, more to the point was I was not working! How could I with a toddler and an infant constantly needing my attention. So, I began checking around for child care. I toured day care centers and was pleased to find one that I really loved! They had a computer lab, an indoor playground, a low teacher to student ratio and boasted a fantastic kindergarten readiness program. The kicker was that it was going to cost me $250 per week per child to send them there! $500 per week just for child care! In order to put my children into day care I would have to take a loss on my pay check. Ok, how can I make this work? I was bringing home about $350 a week on my part time hours. I could increase my hours...of course that means the girls have to stay at the day care center longer. It was unlikely that I was going to find another job that paid as well as this one and allowed me the flexibility that I needed as a mom. Then I came to a surprising conclusion. It was too expensive for me to work! It was cheaper to keep my children at home and be a non-income parent than to have a job!
Of course, I know what you are thinking, public school is free (well, free on delivery), but have you ever taken the time to tally up what it costs you to work and send your child to the "free" school? I encourage you to sit down and do so!
Consider these expenses:
gas to and from work
car maintenance
clothing for work
lunches
dinners out due to late work hours
school clothing
school supplies
gas to and from school
money for field trips/fundraisers/class parties/projects
school lunches
These are just the expenses that came to my mind, but I bet you will find that the free school isn't as free as you thought! Even if you are managing to bring home some of your pay check, what about the time investment? How much is your job and your child's public education costing you in family time?
What about homeschooling? Is it expensive? It can be.We definitely need some of those things too, and it is true, some homeschooling curriculum can run into the thousands. The great thing is that homeschooling can cost as little or as much as you want it too! Are you willing to put in a little extra time searching the internet? Between the internet and the library homeschooling can be completely free. Yes, there is a little bit of a trade. Some homeschoolers prefer to pay for the convenience of a curriculum already set up, but even that doesn't have to cost you an arm and a leg. Providers such as Rod and Staff offer a very comprehensive and inexpensive "boxed" style curriculum. A parent willing to go the extra mile can match any expensive curriculum with free or nearly free substitutes.
The first week I had my son in public school, I spent $75 on field trips, stuff the teacher asked for the classroom, and other miscellaneous crap! The next month I spent an additional $50. That would have bought a lot of curriculum!
ReplyDeletePublic school is not "free".
One thing I've learned about saving on homeschooling is to ask other H.S. moms if they still have their old textbooks. Fortunetly for me, my mom was a homeschooler for years and saved almost all her books (saxon math, etc.). I was able to barrow hers, which, obviously, didn't cost a thing. What she didn't have, I bought for a few dollars (per book) used online and didn't have any problems. I also hear about parents spending hundreds of dollars on school supplies...but I find this rediculous! I can get almost everything I need (paper, penciles, etc) at the Dollar Tree. Staples? Forget it! Even Wal-Mart has extrememly low cost items for back-to-school. Like Crayons...39 cents a box and 50 cents for a ruler. People just need to shop around.
ReplyDeleteOne thing I've learned about saving on homeschooling is to ask other H.S. moms if they still have their old textbooks. Fortunately for me, my mom was a homeschooler for years and saved almost all her books (Saxon math, etc.). I was able to barrow hers, which, obviously, didn't cost a thing. What she didn't have, I bought for a few dollars (per book) used online and didn't have any problems. I also hear about parents spending hundreds of dollars on school supplies...but I find this ridiculous! I can get almost everything I need (paper, pencils, etc) at the Dollar Tree. Staples? Forget it! Even Wal-Mart has extremely low cost items for back-to-school. Like Crayons...39 cents a box and 50 cents for a ruler. People just need to shop around.
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